The computers have won. More people are finding love online than through actual people. In 2014, only 25% of singles met their last date through a friend, while 32% met through a dating site.
As ways of meeting people and finding love has changed, so did perception. It's 2015 and this isn't a Katherine Heigl movie. Girls ask guys out first, and guys dream about marriage and babies. Also, senior citizens are getting off more than you. (Sorry.)